Monday, March 06, 2006

Monday Morning Coming Down

I believe that is the title to a song by Chris Christopherson. I managed to make it in this morning despite having oral surgery on Friday. I just had to forego the pain killers. Percocet does a real good job getting the pain down, but it effects my equilibrium, so I really don't like to drive when I take it. Since it has been a couple of days since the surgery, the pain is beginning to subside anyway, or it was 'just say that it is probably not the best idea to eat an orange when you have partially healed incisions in your mouth. It will definitely get your attention.
V. went to a bible camp this weekend, and had a great time. V. is my grandson, whom I have adopted. His early life was pretty messed up and confusing, but I have had him for seven years now. Some of his attitudes are a result of bad experiences earlier in his life. One of them I have been battling is his attitude towards church.
Carol and I are Christians, and Church is an important part of our life, so getting V. engaged with church is important to us, but I know very well that too much pressure will only result in him getting his back up. He hated going to church on Sunday, but I sat him down one day and told him "Look, you are making yourself miserable with this. As long as you are living in my house, you will go to church on Sunday, so you might as well resign yourself to it. I would not be doing my job as a parent if I didn't see that you got educated about religion, just as much as if I didn't send you to school to learn academics. Since our society does not allow the school to teach you about God, you have to get it somewhere else." While I am quite sure he didn't agree, at least he shut up and went. Well a funny thing happened. As he got to know some of the other kids from church and started to get engaged, he started to WANT to get involved. He actually brought up the idea of going to the youth meetings during the week, and asked it he could go to Bible Camp this last weekend. I guess some times you get it right. He had a great tie and is asking if he can't go back for camp this summer.

4 comments:

Daphnewood said...

I thought that was a Johnny Cash song. hmmm. I am not sure. I only started learning a few country people when I met Mr. Daphnewood. He is a country music fan.

Annyway, I am glad things are working out for V. You are a good man to take in your grandson. Kids need stability and for some reason, many don't get it these days. I am not sure why families seem to be falling apart but at least V. found a good home with lots of love. I think we might be getting an addition to our house soon too. I am not sure. She is my niece and a really good kid but her mother and father seem unable to take care of her. So sad.

Al said...

Thanks for the support. It was not a part of my life plan to be raising a teenager at this point in my life, but the hard thing to do is often the right thing to do.
Good luch with your situation. There are so many things to consider.

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